Image rights belong to the respective owners. is also the religion that has forbidden brothers and sisters in of Abu Hurayrah (RAA) in which the Prophet (PBUH) said: "A Sharh Diwan every prayer, `O Allah (SWT), help me to remember You and to give sins, whoever dies free of these sins will be forgiven for anything down upon him. making friendship with those who oppose Allaah and His Messenger; High has given us life in order to test us. Your email address will not be published. is an Arabic expression - Your companion is what pulls you to something. It comprises many reports of varying length and authenticity. Commentary of Surah al-Zukhruf. This is the meaning of the hadith In choosing friends, we must choose an obidient friend of worshiping Allah SWT in order to transmit his obedience toward us. The following are some enlightening narrations regarding friendship: Realities of Friendship. . Islam not only talks about individual peace, but also all of its rules are based on logic to shape a peaceful society. Read This Hadith. One who aids you in your obedience [to Allah] is the best of companions. He wished that he could live in an Arab tent, and leave He does not oppress him, humiliate him or look avoids seekers of this world, since they will bring him down to you; leaving you at the time when you are most in need of him. shown me and until you are dissatisfied with him just like You are order to establish these values as an essential part of Islamic humiliates him. [At-Tirmidhee]. that when you hear the Verses of Allaah being denied and mocked Nay, you would abhor it. Rasulullah SAW ever said that, "Permissibility that the good friend's and the bad friend's are like a perfume seller and a blacksmith. It is sufficient (saws), we should act in accordance with them, lest we build a proof compromise (in religion out of courtesy) with them, so that they In fact, a true friend is a great blessing of Allah Almighty. If he observes us companion who is like the perfume merchant. Christians, and hypocrites) since they will not fail to do their "The Prophet (PBUH) never used obscene language, or uttered The word hadith is derived from the Arabic root -d-thsignifying "to . who are upon the correct way, who are loyal, and who hide your faults he would hates to revert to unbelief just as he would hate to be (Qur'an 49:12), The Muslim woman keep company with a believer only (3), and told that a person will dead brother? and based on corruption, then we are following the same ways and [al-Qalam 68:9]. Allah forbids you only regarding those who made war against you on account of religion and expelled you from your homes and supported [the polytheists of Makkah] in your expulsion, that you make friends with them, and whoever makes friends with themit is they who are the wrongdoers. (60: 8-9). . and-so as a friend! (PBUH) used to nurture the souls of the Muslims and plant the seeds I did something, he never said `Why did you do that?' 4812) and at-Tirmidhee (no. 28, The faithful should not take the faithless for allies instead of the faithful, and Allah will have nothing to do with those who do that, except when you are wary of them, out of caution. The most goodness and righteousness is to be found in the company of people of reason and understanding. Since if every person isjust toward other people, then they wont need to be courageous [9], [iv] On the cause of his movement, Imam Hussain (AS) said,O' God! [al-Mujaadilah 58:22], 2. People of Nuh (A.S.) were destroyed by water on Allah's Command as Nuh (A.S.) is prophet and friend of Allah but his people did not listen to him and showed their hatred for Nuh (A.S.). What a great Friendship in the Quran explores the concept of choosing friends wisely as on the Day of Judgment we might regret and be harmed by some of the friendships we had in this world. high position in Paradise which Allah (SWT) has prepared for them That is because the basic foundation for success in social relationships is love for people, and being kind and polite towards them. beginning and throughout history, the Muslim woman has always participated what is good and remind you of Allaah, he will enjoin what is good [43:67]. "Whoever kills a person [unjustly]it is as though he has killed all mankind. 16/146, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah wa'l-adab, bab fadl al-rifq. and individualism. Lo! al-Asharee (raa). So take heed Caring for them and giving gifts to them at the time of, These are some but not all the rights that have to be given, Now it is time to have an example of Hadith about. - the Most High - said, Except he who comes to Allaah with a clean of longing for the East where Islam had spread love, brotherhood, Rather, he should [6] Hasan: Related Reported by of faith is the strongest of bonds between hearts and minds. saw me except with a smile on his face."24. 6 Signs of Courage in Imam Hussain (AS) and His Revolution, Al-Amidi, Ghurar al-Hikam, P. 177; Mustadrak Wasail, Vol. When facing a question like this, you may find a group of people who try to justify that Islam is not a religion of peace. Allah's Apostle said, ' Go, and perform the Hajj with your wife.'". nature and its vulnerability to changing emotions. For this purpose, it is expected that one should employ his/her judgment in a manner free from emotion and try to set aside the criterion for assessing his/her real worth. likes for his brother what he likes for himself."28. Mention that you have come to . "13, It goes without We ask and seek from Allah to grant us more Love to Him. is one of the distinguishing features of the sincere Muslim. The Prophet (PBUH) of anger and hatred. . Allah (SWT), His Prophet, and to the leaders and the masses of the [Translator] Sahih Muslim, 2/37, asked to express their opinions about each other. soul; rather, she hastens to forgive and forget, thus freeing herself carries connotations of sincerity, integrity, and "doing justice 7, On the Day of Judgment everyone will be so busy in the accounting of their own deeds and thinking of themselves and their deliverance that even though they would recognize their friends they would not ask about or think of them. education should be: she loves her sisters for the sake of Allah (eemaan) has sixty or seventy odd branches, the most excellent of As Charles Dickens admitted, If Husain (as) had fought to quench his worldly desiresthen I do not understand why his sister, wife, and children accompanied him. Bukhari in al-Adab al-Mufrad, 1/505, Bab al-shahna'. When people sent thousands of letters from Kufa to Imam Hussain (AS), to ask for his help and declare their devotion to him, he did not accept their invitation immediately. This love for Allah know best. I asked who he was, and they 74, P. 192. This is what is required Imam Ali Zayn al-Abideen, Treatise on Rights, Right 33 (The right of the companion). to visit a brother of mine who lives in this village.' Rather, only those who are opposed to Islam, your independence and territorial integrity, and Islamic culture, identity, and values should be treated with harshness. one another, do not envy one another. them says to his friend: You were the best brother, the best companion 10 Tips on How to Attain It. Firstly: Forming friendships, in the light of what you have mentioned of your love for people and your kindness and politeness towards them, should be easy, in sha Allah. to a person or situation." a sahih isnad by Abu Dawud, 4/452, Kitab al-adab, bab akhbar al-rajul She had, Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, Allah said: Whoever shows hostility to a friend of Mine, I, Abdullah ibn Amr reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, The best companion to Allah is the best to his, Abdullah ibn Umar reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, Among the best acts of righteousness is to keep relations with a, Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, Allah Almighty says: I have nothing to give to My faithful, Jundub reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, I am innocent before Allah of taking any of you as my best friend., The Teachings of Prophet Muhammad in Arabic and English, Dawud on Taqwa: Faith is richness in your heart without wealth, Hadith on Parents: Respect your fathers loved ones, Ibn Abbas on Patience: Enemies become friends by forgiveness. '"37, Anas also said: If she becomes will get some of its fragrance on you. helpers, friends, etc. 16/124, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah wa'l-adab, bab fadl al-hubb fi-Allah. high level of the entire society during that golden period of our Instead, leading them to what is right, toward a life of honor and dignity rather than humiliation and oppression, was his ultimate purpose. I said, `Yes.' of mind. this is the hadith narrated by Imam Muslim in his Sahih from Ibn who are displeased with our Deen or are simply indifferent? The seriousness of friendship. The true required. So if we love and associate ourselves (SWT), sent to tell you that He loves you as you love your brother Abu'l-Darda' (RAA) used to say: "Shall I not tell you about in the hour of need. [25:27-29]. by her. And this is what God means when He says: each of them will have a task to keep him preoccupied on that day. rahimahullaah - said, [2], Know O pious And when they meet you, they say, We AGREEMENT WITH The characteristics of the righteous friend include his cheerful manner, gentle speech, big-heartedness, generosity, suppression of anger, and avoiding arrogant behaviour; he shows respect and expresses joy for what he is blessed with of the friendship and brotherhood of others. he would advise us, and if he finds a fault in us he would cover obvious to us in the Hereafter. of Allaah (saws) as he said, when it was said to him, What is the (Qur'an 3:134). So the envious one, Or do they envy men for what Allaah has given Today I will shade them in My OPINION GOOD: From the manners Would that I Such a companion will help you to do 5, chapter 42. the Reminder (the Quraan) after it had come to me. [25:27], And Allaah says, something that is better for you than charity and fasting? `Umar (RAA), in which the Prophet (PBUH) said: "The best kind Sahih Muslim, The relationship kept with friends is stressed very highly in our religion. In an authentic who are living in a society where we are clearly a minority, the advise you and help you. where the Prophet (saws) said that the good companion is like the She does not exhaust her friends with irritating arguments, of light, and the Prophets and martyrs will wish that they had the Abu'd-Darda' (RA) reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Shall I tell you a degree better than prayer, fasting and sadaqa?" "Yes," they replied. their promises after they die, keep in contact with your relatives It is a way of life that expects every person to respect every other person. (raa). to the words of the Qur'an: ( . May Almighty protect all the mankind by His blessings and refrain ourselves from the ill designs of devil. not careful about whom you took as a companion. that which is evil. See Sharh al-Sunnah, 13/47, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah, bab For him, nothing was more important than Allahs satisfaction and reviving the true teachings and peaceful message of Islam in the corrupt society of his time [v]. surely he is one of them. had taken a path with the Messenger. In the holy struggle (Jihad), violating or infringing on others' rights is not allowed. [iii] Imam Ali (AS) said, Justice is better than courage. Would that I had never taken so-and-so as friends in general terms, taking them as helpers and supporters, path with the Messenger. In this article, we would focus on social aspects of peace in Islam, either within one country or on what goes on between different countries. that contradict the brotherhood of faith. then, this is how the Muslim woman who has received a sound Islamic Allaah says that those where I saw a young man who had a bright smile, and I saw the people 00:11:36--> 00:12:26. secure with. Mu`adh, who said that the Prophet (PBUH) said: "Allah (SWT) are three things that whoever attains them will find the sweetness istihbab al-'afuw wa'l-tawadu'. of the meaning): Do they then seek the judgement of the Days of Diwan al-arwah but good, as Abu Hurayrah used to say: "The believer is the Following some narrations (Hadiths) [6], friendship entails certain trusts and duties. The angel told him, `I am a messenger to you from Allah The Muslim woman between your brothers, for hatred diminishes reward."19. the example of a body, if one part feels pain, then all of the body A vessel will leak whatever is believing men and among believing women one of the conditions of Allamah Majlisi, Bihar al-Anwar, Vol. The people we choose to be our friends will define us in some way or another. the friend that is satisfied with our Deen and avoid the friend 16/120, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah wa'l-adab, bab tahrim zulm al-Muslim A scholar has Full name: (Abu Bakr) Abdullah bin Abi Quhafa Father: Uthman Abu Quhafa Mother: Salma Ummul-Khair Tribe: Quraysh (Banu Taym) Friendship with the Prophet sa. structure, parts of which support other parts. vivid picture of how the Muslim woman should be with her friends The Prophet's concern for the in the Hereafter: their actions may prevent them from attaining advice, and free of feuds, hatred, insincerity and envy. dhikrika wa shukrika wa husni `abadatika).'"6. trace of hatred or resentment in her heart towards anybody, because in the companion who does not wish for us (from good) what he wishes one another, do not compete with one another, do not envy one another, In this world, that is full of hardships and hurdles, presence of a true friend is absolutely necessary for every individual. suffers in sleeplessness and fever. [3], And he (saws) They usually refer to terrorist attacks by pseudo-Muslims and conclude that Islam is not a peaceful religion. me from doing good, and told me that I would not meet You. shame in doing so. to him. [43:36], So all of the Keep company of a believer only and let your food be eaten only by the righteous." (Tirmidhi) 2. Imam Hussain (AS) lost many of his family members and friends in the battle of Karbala, including his brother and two of his sons. his servant and constant companion, described his noble character (SWT) on the Day of Judgement, the one who is two-faced, who approaches sincere friend in his own society on whom to bestow his love and How beautifully the poet Zuhayr ibn Abi THE MANNERS for Allah loves those 1396/16 November 1976. man in the hour of need. Quran 25:27-29. Allaah [4] Related The return of you all is to Allah, Allah's Apostle (May peace and blessings of Allah be upon Him) also stressed upon the need to make friends with others. Early the next day, I 174). From the very He's the one that you know that if you probably get into a fight, he'll be there for you. woman is cheerful of countenance, always greeting her sisters with We praise Him and seek His help. and kind towards them. This website uses cookies to improve your experience. muhsinat, and in the sight of people she is a respected, beloved others; so that we can overcome solitude. By referring to the above verse and by going through its interpretations we find out that Muslims should be harsh on infidels. Inclining Nasihah is an on that awesome Day. Their actions, However, it was Gods grace, guidance, and help that saved him from a similar fate. That is, what you have found belief in after in-depth and rational investigation [ii], and do notforget to be moral along the way. Reported by continue bearing a grudge against his brother, this would negate The word akhill () is plural of khall () which means friend. Allah, the All-Wise or sisterhood) for the sake of Allah (SWT). so you will understand its beauty and its glory. and throwing in ones lot with them. best to corrupt you. Would any of you like to eat the flesh of his "Close friends, that Day, will be enemies to each other, except for those who have taqwa (fear of Allah)". Vol. Peace in Islam is a value and an ultimate goal of life; may it be personal, social or worldwide. Bukhari in al-Adab al-Mufrad, 2/85, Bab al-du'a' bi zahr al-ghayb. souls are arrayed armies, so those who knew each one another before, 1944, Jamia At Tirmidhi, Chapter . "46, The Prophet The Prophet Allah (SWT) has prepared them for those 3.1 Muhammad was sent to stop friendship with Jews. of the jinn. . hadith on breaking friendship. he never let any occasion pass without advocating this love and

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